Jul 01 2009

Modesty of Heart- Heather Paulson

Published by Christa Taylor under Modesty

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Heather Paulson, author of Emotional Purity: An Affair of the Heart

kindly agreed to do a guest post on the topic of “Modesty of Heart”, check out her book as well, it contains a wealth of good things.


What does it mean to have modesty of the heart? This may be a new concept for some, but I believe that when a young woman has modesty of heart, her desire to be physically modest will follow. You could also say that a young woman who guards her heart is being modest of heart.


We hear that phrase “guard your heart/emotions” but what does it look like? How does it play itself out in our daily life?

As a single woman God has a special call on this season of your life.

1 Corinthians 7:34 says: “A woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit.”

You are called to be concerned about the things of the Lord.


But where does concern take place?

We’re concerned about things in our mind.

Our mind and our heart are so closely related, so when we’re using our energy to be concerned about the things of the Lord, it doesn’t leave room to be concerned about having a boyfriend, getting the attention of a young man, or if/when we’re going to be married.

When our focus is on the Lord it enables us to guard our emotions and have modest of heart.


Guarding your heart is putting up protection about what you let into your heart.

It’s about being intentional about what we allow our minds and hearts to dwell on.

What are you giving your attention to, what consumes your thought?

When one gives their mind to the Lord they began to experience freedom of worry: worry about boys, worry about looks, and worry about the future.

Guarding your emotions and having modesty of heart will reap a wonderful season of rest and peace in the Lord.

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Jul 01 2009

Are you a photographer?

If you are in the local Portland Area, friend and fellow photographer Jocelyn Edlin is hosting a photography training course, taught by world-traveled Rowan Gilson the week of July 13th.  (Cost is $399)

I will be taking the class, join me if you can :)

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Jun 18 2009

Are little girls being Sexualized?

Published by Christa Taylor under Modesty

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When was the first time you heard the tale of the Pied Piper of Hamelin? The man who enchanted the little children and wisked them away to his magical cavern, leaving the parents weeping at the sealed entrance.

There is a Pied Piper in our culture today. He is stealing away our daughters, our little sisters, those fresh faces we used to babysit each weekend.

Young innocence is dissapearing, replaced by pre-mature sexuality and aggressiveness. Sales for thong underwear for 7-12 year-olds are sky-rocketing, and “prosti-tots” is actually a viable fashion trend.

Are we surprised?As author and essayist Caitlin Flanagan pointed out, “The goals of contemporary American feminism have been to ‘encourage girls not to be shackled by the double standard and to abandon modesty as a goal, to erode patriarchal notions of how men ought to treat women, and to champion aggressivness in girls”

(Prude: How the Sex-Obsessed Culture Damages Girls (and America, Too!)


But someone is taking action, and we can help

Dannah Gresh, author (And the Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets to Sexual Purity ,Lies Young Women Believe: And the Truth that Sets Them Free) and activist contacted me with a mission that requires participation of every mother and sister who cares about the future of young girls. We can be a positive, enthusiastic force for change.

The Plan: Present a petition to the Council of Fashion Designers of America, and Women’s Wear Daily calling for reform to girls apparel.

The Goal: 50,000+ signatures

The Next Step: Sign the Petition–>  SecretKeeperGirl

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Jun 14 2009

Vision for ET’s

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As I stepped onto the stage, hoping I wouldn’t trip on my way to the front, I was struck by one thought: This is what we’re here for.

Kelly and I traveled down to Dallas to join hands with Beauty from the Heart Ministries as they launched their first conference for young women. We had the privilege of hosting a “modest fashion show”, models and all.  (See other post for pics: CT Pics )

As we cycled through the models, mentioning a few fashion tips, I looked out over the crowd, happy to be accomplishing my main goal. Our desire as a company, is to equip women who have a heart to serve God in their dress with cute modest options. I want to jump up and say–> “This is it, this is what we’re here for! You can be modest and stylish simultaneously!”

It was an “Aha” moment.

A few hours later, we flew home, just in time to launch our first-ever “Swingin Catwalk” back in Portland. From the conservative Christian crowd to hard-core swing dancers. The fashion show was such an opportunity to reach out and build relationships with the swing community. I had a captive audience while we spent 2+ hours on hair/makeup.

In one weekend I saw both aspects of our mission in realtime- 1) Equipping young women 2) Using fashion as a tool for the kingdom.

Now how cool is that?

We all have opportunities- are we using them? Using the gifting God has given you, in your sphere of influence, can be the most satisfying activity you’ll ever achieve.

Long live ETs.

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Jun 11 2009

Taylor Giveaway!

Published by Christa Taylor under Misc

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So you all met Gileah a few days ago, how about meeting some of her music?

If you like Sixpence None the Richer, you’ll love Gileah Taylor.

We’re hosting a giveaway for her goods!

1st Prize-(drum roll please)

-Gileah’s latest album, Ghost Train and the matching Tshirt

-Chris Taylor’s CD (that’s her talented hubby- random coincidence, her husband and my Dad are both named Chris Taylor =)

2nd Prize-

-$30 gift certificate for their website

Check out Gileah’s myspace to sample the tunes–>

Buy her album here: Gileah and the Ghost Train

Leave a comment to Enter- Contest, ends next Thursday

Hoping I win,=)

CT

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Jun 10 2009

Meet an ET: Gileah Taylor

Published by Christa Taylor under ET's in Real Life

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I’ve never met Gileah in person, but we instantly connected over email because of our shared love for classic, ET fashion. Unbeknownst to me at the time, she is a talented recording artist. Gileah and her husband and both musicians living in Nashville, with their two beautiful daughters.

Hear from an ET who has unique talents,  yet shares the same core values and beliefs.

CT: What is your background? How were you raised?

My father is a preacher at a little church called Sovereign Grace Church.
Both parents are artists. Mom paints, acrylics on canvas, and Dad is a musician and songwriter. He also puts the Psalms to music, word for word.

I have three younger sisters, Emma, Sarah and Maranatha. We were raised to be mothers and wives. Dad has always been very clear on the roles of husband and wife; the husband is to provide, spiritually and physically, and the wife is to be the keeper of the home.

CT: What’s your Story?

When I was in my teens, I went through a very rebellious stage. I didn’t know if I believed in the God of my father. I had Christian friends, and for the first time I realized that I simply didn’t have what they had. I thought that I just wasn’t called by God, and I did my best to prove that I didn’t want Him or His ways.

When I met my would-be husband, we were both coming from opposite ends of the music spectrum. I was sick of playing in coffeehouses and bars for my own glory, and he was worn out after years of playing week in and week out in the big church music scene. We got married, and I had our first daughter, Clara, three years later.

When she was born, my priorities shifted from taking care of me to taking care of her. I remember reading No Compromise, Keith Green’s story touched me, and as I read prayers from his journals I prayed with him. By His grace, the Holy Spirit came down and showed me what I really was, a sinner in desperate need of the Saviour. It was an amazing time in my life, and I’ll never forget just how sweet those first weeks were. That was three years ago, and I got baptized last year in the Gulf of Mexico.

CT: What do you want to accomplish through your music?

When I was younger, I insisted that I just wanted to make beautiful music. That’s a little silly; I know firsthand that if you’re getting up on stage and not giving the glory to God, then you’re taking it all for yourself. Not a healthy thing for anybody.

The last record I did, (2007, s/t,) was written from the place of coming to God. The next one that is in production now, is written from the place of being a child of God. I want my music to reflect my walk with Jesus. I spent way too many years and wrote too many songs that have nothing to do with Him.

Who or What inspires your music and lyric themes?

I’m most inspired by books. A good line from a C.S. Lewis book will get me started on a new song…the Bible, of course.

Do you have a central theme or idea running through your different songs?

The last record was written from the viewpoint of a searcher. A line from “The Spirit” says-
All my life I’ve been looking for the Truth
Sang the sweet, old hymns but still a skeptic in the pew
BUT- you can’t be a searcher forever. 2nd Timothy 3 addresses that. Paul says that in the last days men will be “always learning but never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.” One has to commit eventually. The song points to the answer found in Christ.

Gileah, as an ET yourself, what does that look like in the music scene?

. I haven’t been able to play out too much since I had Mercie, and that’s fine with me. That’s where God has placed me.

For young women who have musical gifts and hope to make records or tour, I would encourage them to take a good look at their motives. There are plenty of men and women in the music scene who do the music thing really well, but it’s not easy to be a partner and parent when you’re in the studio or on the road for large chunks of time. I would say it would be best suited for women who work with at least one person from their family, or for young married women who work with their husbands.

As wife, and mother of two daughters do you have any thoughts or practical tips on raising up the next generation to be ETs? What’s worked for you?

Ahhhhh, let’s see. I haven’t at all figured everything out. But I know a few things for sure. I believe that my place is in the home. I’m planning on home schooling the girls. And I pray that they grow up to be women of God.
So I’ve been learning how to run the house in an efficient manner. I try to make healthy choices in the kitchen. My mom recently taught me how to mill my own flour. I’ve learned a ton from reading other mom’s blogs- your sister’s, for instance!
The most important thing in being a mom to daughters is setting the example of what it is to be a woman of God. I hope that I am a living illustration of the Titus 2 woman and the Proverbs 31 woman.

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Jun 01 2009

Two ET’s in Texas

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Kelly (fondly called Kell-Bell) and I are heading off to Texas way -too-early Wednesday.

No, we’re not flying down merely to work on our suntans. (Rumor has it, people from the Northwest are the whitest in the country due to the lack of Sun ;)

We are excited to collaborate with Hannah Farver & Lindsay Wagstaffe, from Beauty From the Heart ministries at their girls conference this Friday.

Personally, I think we get the fun part- We’re putting on a Fashion show.

All you gals from Texas- I would love to see you there.

packing,

CT

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May 27 2009

C-T.com & Swing Dancing?

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Our Latest Press Release: Yay for Swing Dancing!

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE


Local designers bring Fashion to Portland’s Swing Dance Scene

June 7th, Christa Taylor, of Christa-Taylor.com, joins Larry Peacock of Stumptown Dance to launch First Ever “Swingin’ Catwalk” at the Scottish Rite.

Vintage Fashion has been popular on Portland streets for decades, and who knows it better than the Swing dance crowd? In 2 weeks, 8 of Portland’s dancers will interrupt the dance night, strutting the Red carpet in vintage inspired Fashion designed here in Portland. Once the dancer hits the end of the runway, she’ll join her dance partner to show off their footwork.
“It brings two of Portland’s best flavors together” says Taylor, “People are getting so excited, we’re considering making this a monthly event” she concludes.
30% of any sales from the Christa-Taylor collection go to support orphans and widows in Cambodia.

SWINGIN’ CATWALK: Scottish Rite, Sunday June 7th, 2009 9:30 pm.
Scottish Rite is located at: 1515 SW Morrison St, Portland, OR
TICKETS: (available at the door) free to the Press, $8 for students, $12 for adults

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May 22 2009

Prejean a Pretender?

Published by Christa Taylor under Modesty

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What a controversy was unleashed when Carrie Prejean (Miss California) make her stand for traditional Marriage. The question is- do we want this Christian model to become the spokesperson for traditional marriage?

Nancy Leigh Demoss answered the Prejean controversy with excellence and wisdom, I have included some of her highlights here. For the complete article: Prejeans Story

Carrie has made a strong public profession of her faith in Christ. As Christians, we are called to live as redeemed men and women and to reflect to the world the beauty and holiness of God. I’m not in a position to judge Carrie’s motives or her heart. But while I applaud her courage, I also believe some of her choices and public actions, past and present, are representative of many women who consider themselves Christians, but who lack clear biblical thinking and conviction on such matters as virtue, womanhood, beauty, modesty, and discretion.

Christian Youth Becoming Secular

By and large, young adults who have grown up in our evangelical homes, churches, and schools, are buying into a message that they have seen modeled by those around them who call themselves Christians—namely, that Christianity can be divorced from Christ-likeness, and that practical holiness in everyday life is out-dated, irrelevant, or optional.

We Need Titus 2 Women

Carrie Prejean’s situation highlights the desperate need for Titus 2 “older women”—mothers, youth workers, mentors—to take an active role in the training and discipleship of younger women—teaching them to live out the implications of the gospel in every area of their lives.

Carrie Prejean’s story should cause us to be on our faces crying out to God over the extent to which the church today has accommodated to the world. It should cause us to plead with God on behalf of our children and grandchildren, and then to get up off our knees and go out and engage this younger generation with love and grace and truth and to become agents of redemption in their lives.

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May 21 2009

How to Wear Modest Shorts

Published by Christa Taylor under Fashion tips

Oxy-moronic? Think again-

Nancy from Something Marvelous gives a visual help on Summer style:

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Like or don’t like?

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