A recent commenter had this to say about skirts, be encouraged!
Ladies
You can’t imagine what a pleasure it is to hear that so many women seem to enjoy wearing skirts and dresses.
I’d come across this site because I was so disenchanted with clothing choices women made these days. Skimming through a number of the entries posted it is such a delight to see that you find feminine clothing so easy, comfortable and enjoyable to wear.
I’m not being sexist when I say that, as a guy, I find myself being more courteous to women of any age when they wear skirts or dresses. It’s not sexist, it’s the way we’re made. You look so gentle, feminine and pretty that any reasonable man finds that he’d do anything to brighten your day just a tad. A lot of guys aren’t really attracted to what looks like a female version of themselves.
I guess us guys tend to “filter” women in jeans and pants as being like the rest of the guys and we’ll treat them that way. So if you’re a girl/woman and you have any doubts then please think twice before you put on jeans/slacks. As I said, any REASONABLE people will likely treat you very nicely (you may get a few ignorant remarks from feminists and people who are just plain sloppy). And you’ll be increasing the amount of respect that feminine dress and behaviour should be given rather than the crass, loud and sloppy ways that the world seems to encourage.
Keep being feminine – you can’t imagine what a powferul and positive influence you have and I hope you’ll have a fun and enjoyable time doing so.
I found this to be extremely encouraging, thank you so much for sharing. I wear skirts 99 percent of the time and as far as I can remember have always been treated like a lady. It’s surprising how much difference a skirt or dress can make!
As a young woman I do not find this offensive or “sexist” at all. When you believe that God created man and woman individually unique from one another it is not a hard thing to understand why a man would naturally treat a woman in feminine attire differently.
In my household we have the freedom to wear pants, but my parents encourage us to be as feminine as possible in every situation (which normally means choosing a skirt or a dress over pants). Since I’m a gal anyway I might as well embrace it, right?
Thanks again for sharing; it’s so nice to hear the guy’s side for once.
Perhaps, he should be courteous to women, no matter what they’re wearing, because that’s what it means to be a man. Are you saying that you wouldn’t be courteous to a homeless woman because she is not dressed nicely? “It’s the way we’re made” argument is so tired. It does not excuse you’re behavior. You’re an adult, you choose how you behave and you can’t blame it on biology. Any reasonable person would treat a woman with respect because that’s how you should treat everyone. Whether she’s wearing a skirt or not.